when people comment on who looks like whom in our family, i’m always left out. alex looks just like my dad. or alex looks just like tripper. or holy cow does max look like a mini-tripper!!what about me?? i’ve quietly taken comfort in the fact that people say alex looks like my dad. people also say i look like my dad so therefore alex must look like me, right? am i reaching? well, the other day i noticed something unexpected. max and i squint the same way! yay! finally something. some visual proof! am i still reaching?