i am being indecisive on which bedding to use in the guest room. at some point i want to commit to something because i plan to make an upholstered headboard as a d-i-y project, you know, since i have so much time on my hands. if i go with the stripey bedding, i'll either do gray for the headboard (or i actually have some extra striped fabric). if i go with the blue bees, i was thinking a natural linen colored fabric for the headboard.so, which is better? stripey or bees??